Friday, February 28, 2014

The Mustard Seed

Dear family and friends,

WOW...what a crazy few months it has been for myself, Drew, and the Darling family.  As I put together the "recipient" list for this e-mail, I quickly realized how wonderfully diverse and far-stretched our support is, and am reminded of how each of you have continued to pray for us, care for us, and show your love (which has left us at a loss for words time and time again).

As you all know, this past August I packed up my life and headed to SC to begin a Master's degree program at the University of South Carolina.  Upon heading south I started a blog called, "The Mustard Seed," in an attempt to keep everyone updated on my adventures below the Mason-Dixon line.  Below is an excerpt from my first entry...

First, I know the burning question you all have - "Where did she come up with the mustard seed?"  Well, it's quite simple.  As I was packing fervently earlier this week, I came across a necklace given to my by my aunt and uncle that has a mustard seed in the pendant...I thought of the parable of the mustard seed.  From what I can remember, indeed the mustard seed is small, but when it grows, it really grows - and if I'm correct, it can grow among weeds and all other sorts of plants.  I was reminded of the thought that even as the mustard seed starts small, it quickly grows into a flourishing and sizable mustard plant.  So here is my analogy, I might be like a mustard seed now - but I know that USC and SC is where God wants me to be, and therefore I know He will use me in ways that I can't even imagine right now as I am planted in my new home.  My prayer is that I can flourish and grow in my faith, while demonstrating God's love to others, just as a mustard plant becomes deeply rooted and grows strong from a small seed. 

Now, let's fast-forward 6 months...and each of you have heard the varying versions of the "walk to class" and collapsed lung that changed life forever. Here is the new take on the mustard seed analogy: The Lord has literally used something a comparable size to a mustard seed to lead me in a new direction of life in which we are confident is being used to glorify Him in more ways than we could ever imagine.

The mustard seed object?  The 1cm tumor on my thyroid that to the best of my doctors' knowledge started to take it's toll on my body 10+ years ago, and led to the diagnosis of metastasized medullary carcinoma (Cancer) on February 13, 2013.  The good in it all?  I have no symptoms, this type of Cancer is slow-growing, I am not receiving treatment at this time (CT scans and more blood work to monitor things at the beginning of May), I am young, healthy (besides this whole Cancer thing), and I have the love of incredible family, friends, and one outstanding fiancé who have stood by me through it all!

So, it's simple.  I rejoice in each new day, I praise God for the large and small victories, I place my trust in the Lord, the power of prayer, and the promise of hope and peace we have in Him.  (And I'm already working with those in SC and PA to decide how I can continue to move forward with my degree, have made significant changes towards an all organic, Cancer-fighting diet (yum!), and enjoy planning our wedding for next May!)

I promise to keep all of you updated by means of the "new" Mustard Seed...this e-mail group.  I think it will be the best way to reach out to everyone when I have an update.  Everything should be quiet for the next 6 weeks or so, as we had good results at my oncology appointment (Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center) last week.  Also, do not feel the need to reply, I just want to keep everyone in the "loop" (feel free to forward it too, I tried to make sure I got everyone)!

Wishing you all a wonderful week,

Sarah Darling

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